When AR Rahman talked about adjustments after marrying Saira Banu: ‘My children are sensitive and know when I’m upset’
The news of AR Rahman and Saira Banu’s separation after nearly three decades of marriage has left their fans shocked. Saira issued a statement on Tuesday night, which was shared by India Today, explaining that their decision was due to ’emotional strain and challenges’ that had become ‘insurmountable’ over time.
Amid this, an old interview of AR Rahman with Rahmaniac.com has resurfaced, offering insights into his married life and family dynamics. Rahman spoke about the adjustments needed in their early days, especially as his South Indian family adapted to Saira’s Gujarati background.
He shared, “You know, it’s always difficult for any family to adjust to anyone new coming into the fold. Like all mothers, my mother was possessive about me, and as we all lived together as a joint family, a period of adjustment was necessary. In 1995, my eldest daughter Khatija was born, and everything was fine after that.”
Rahman also opened up about his temperament and how he interacts with his team and family. He admitted, “I’ve lost my temper with my team at home and the studio. I act as if I’m angry so the job gets done—don’t show this to my guys.”
AR Rahman and Wife Saira Banu Call It Quits
However, when it came to his family, Rahman clarified that his anger was mostly an act. “My children are sensitive and know when I’m upset. That’s very important. I only have to show my irritation—that’s all I need to do.”
He also spoke about the close circle of friends and collaborators who have supported him through the years, including those from his teams in India and London. Rahman reflected on his preference for solitude, adding, “I’m not crazy about being mobbed. I prefer some quiet time. I prefer being alone.”
The couple, who tied the knot on March 12, 1995, in Chennai, are parents to three children – Khatija, Raheema, and Ameen. While details surrounding their separation remain private, the announcement marks the end of a nearly three-decade-long journey.
